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Saving marriages and divorce reform

Tune in to The Smart Divorce to learn more about the proposed legislation for The Coalition for Divorce Reform.

Our guest, Chris Gersten (http://www.divorcereform.info), is a former high ranking official in the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, serving in both Bush administrations. He was responsible for launching the Federal government’s Healthy Marriage Initiative, creating a national organization to reform divorce laws in the U.S. and educate the public about the impact of divorce.

The result is the launch of the Coalition for Divorce Reform, formed in order to increase awareness of the negative impact of divorce, encourage discussion and debate about the effect of divorce on our culture, and support passage of divorce reform legislation.

Topics in this program include:

• How the Coalition for Divorce Reform is trying to make a difference
• Why marriage counseling does not work; education and alternatives
• The importance of marriage education and the potential to save marriage
• The importance of a waiting period before filing for divorce
• Understanding relationships, the impact of divorce and so much more

Click on the link to hear this informative interview:

http://www.divorcesourceradio.com/saving-marriages-and-divorce-reform/

June 26, 2011 at 4:45 pm Leave a comment

Your presence is requested as we celebrate our divorce

The invitations to Charles and Bonnie Bronfman’s latest fete are embossed and formal. Guests of the Canadian-born business magnate and his architect wife are asked to wear proper business attire for the fancy event — a night of cocktails and party chatter in New York City. And before signing off on the invites with “Fondly, Bonnie and Charles,” they tell guests how much they look forward “to continuing these relationships with everyone.”

To read the full article, and view a quote by Deborah Moskovitch, open the pdf below.

Your presence is requested as we celebrate our divorce

May 24, 2011 at 3:44 am 1 comment

Grey Divorce is on the Rise

Recent statistics show that the divorce rate has increased significantly by couples who have been in long term marriages of 20, 30 years or more.  Just look at Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger, or Tipper and Al Gore.  People seem to be scratching their heads asking, if these couples have made their marriage work this long, why couldn’t they last “till death do us part”.

The result isn’t really all that shocking when you consider the reasons why couples marry have changed over the past 50 years, and that divorce has become more socially acceptable.  What men and women are looking for in a spouse and their expectations of a long term relationship has changed.  Women wanted someone to take care of them, men wanted to be in a position of power.  Today, as more women become financially independent, looking to be taken care of is no longer what many are seeking.  Rather, both women and men want an equal partnership in the relationship, and a best friend.

I was interviewed on Canada AM this morning discussing Grey Divorce.    This is the information I shared.

  • Research shows us that more woman are leaving the marriage than men.
  • Often times when women choose to leave, their husband’s are blindsided by the decision.
  • Further, research tells us that more women are leaving for their own emotional well-being, while men are more likely to leave for someone else.
  • We are living longer, healthier, fitter lives.  When adult children leave home, and their parents become empty nesters, you have many spouses in their 50’s and 60’s looking at their partner and say to themselves – “I don’t want to spend the next 20 or 30 years or more with you.” Why?
    • People have decided to no longer look the other way when there are issues of infidelity, emotional abuse, and substance or alcohol abuse.
    • Many couples have drifted apart during the child rearing years, and once the children have left home, find they no longer have anything in common.
    • Often times, many of these couples were living parallel lives during the marriage, and now want a partner, not a roommate.
    • There has been a lack of emotional and intimate relations.
    • People have grown apart and their values no longer mesh.
    • Many of these individuals want a best friend and companion with similar interests and values to live out the rest of their lives; grow old and hold hands.

If you feel your marriage, or relationship is deteriorating because you are no longer the priority, have lost that loving feeling and still love your partner – you’re just not in love with him or her, then perhaps marriage counseling might put you back on track.

If you feel that divorce is the only option, you are not alone.  Many others are deciding that the” good enough marriage” is no longer good enough.

May 16, 2011 at 2:40 pm Leave a comment

Announcing The Smart Divorce Radio Show

The Smart Divorce radio show on Divorce Source Radio.

Divorce touches almost everyone in society. If you haven’t personally experienced divorce, chances are you know someone how has. The impact on the individual, the family, and society are monumental. People are searching for answers and information to get through the divorce process with their sanity and dignity intact; they want to move forward with focus hope and confidence.

Brimming with expert advice and the personal experience and expertise of the hosts, Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck, listeners are entertained and educated with an enlightening, provocative and informative show. This is a unique and valuable show. There isn’t anything like this anywhere else.

From the trenches to the Benches — interviews with the leading divorce professionals across North America will be shared so that listeners will learn how to manage the divorce process in a healthier, less painful way and move on to create a better life postdivorce. We’ll also be speaking with individuals who have weathered divorce, and are sharing their experience by helping others as well.

Divorce Source Radio produces FREE programs featuring both legal and emotional advice from respected professionals. Tune in every week, to listen to our free programs on The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio at http://www.divorcesourceradio.com/

February 11, 2011 at 1:35 am Leave a comment

Join Deborah Moskovitch on Syndicatednews.net

Join Deborah Moskovitch on Syndicatednews.net “Family Matters” with Hosts Jill Egizii and Judge Michele Lowrance on Wednesday, September 22, 2010.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/syndicatednews/2010/09/22/deborah-moskovitch-thesmartdivorcecom-8666950270

Hear Deborah talk about what it means to have The Smart Divorce and much more.  The Smart Divorce is one very smart approach for individuals going through divorce who want to sharpen their judgment, boost their confidence and save time, money, and their skin. This invaluable consulting process helps individuals to focus on what they need to do to get through both the process and practical necessities of divorce

September 21, 2010 at 4:38 am 1 comment

Hear Deborah again on “Guy Talk”

Have you hear about the radio show on Newstalk 1010 CFRB, “Guy Talk”?  You can hear it live on Sunday evenings from 9 pm-10pm.

Guy Talk is a radio show that deals with psychological issues which modern men face.   The underlying premise of Guy Talk rests in the question: Why Won’t Men Grow Up? The creator/hosts of Guy Talk are Dale Curd and Stuart Knight.

I’ve been invited to speak about The Smart Divorce and how to navigate the divorce process. November 1, 2009.  Tune in and feel free to call in with your views at 416 872 1010.  Although this show is targeted towards men, women are invited to call in as well.  I would be interested in hearing your perspective as we discuss the many issues divorcees are confronted with.

October 23, 2009 at 7:05 pm 2 comments

Get Your Justice Live Tonight with Deborah Moskovitch

Get Your Justice Live is an interactive internet talk radio show that focuses on reforming the judiciary, with a special focus on the anti-family courts within the United States.

Tune in live tonight with Get Your Justice Live with guest Deborah Moskovitch

Live Call Ins: 724-444-7444

Talk Cast Id: 39517

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To join the live chat simply follow this link: http://budurl.com/liveshowtimechat at 8PM EST or watch for the newsletter for the finished interview.

Tune in and listen live tonight to hear about The Smart Divorce

October 15, 2009 at 12:00 am Leave a comment

Where Divorce Ends, Your Destiny Begins Telesummit

YOU CAN HAVE WHAT YOU WANT!

YOU CAN LEAD A LIFE FULL OF JOY AND HAPPINESS!

“Where Divorce Ends, Your Destiny Begins Telesummit” which will be taking place  Monday and Wednesday Evenings,  9:00 – 10:00 pm EST beginning on October 12, 2009.

The Telesummit I will be featuring 8 teleseminars with 8 leading experts in the field of moving forward during, through and after divorce.

I am the first featured guest on this telesummit.  Tune in tonight and learn what to expect about the emotional and legal aspects of divorce, so that you are better prepared to move forward with focus and confidence, while saving time and money.

Click on the link http://www.lauracampbellcompanies.com/where-divorce-ends-your-destin/ to reserve your free spot.

October 14, 2009 at 11:52 pm Leave a comment

Hear Deborah discuss how to have The Smart Divorce

What makes a smart divorce and what do you need to do to get there? Listen to this interview on Thatchannel.com; an internet television station.

 

I was recently interviewed on The Liquid Lunch and I discuss my motivations for writing The Smart Divorce, my perspectives on smart parenting and how to move on to create a better life postdivorce.

 

Click on the link to hear me speak.

http://video.google.ca/videoplay?docid=-1083777693813957033

April 15, 2009 at 12:23 am Leave a comment

Preparing for divorce pays off

Managing a divorce truly is a process. However, you may not know what this process is, how to proceed, and how to process information and counsel along the way to make better decisions.  After all, you probably did not approach your marriage with the expectation that you might some day require an exit plan.

Many lawyers would agree that the divorce process should be handled like a business transaction. Yet, it is difficult during this ‘transaction’ to separate out your emotions which are probably at high tide from the important decisions that will affect you and your children for many years to come. It can also be difficult to get the divorce process started or to know how to choose a lawyer, assess if your lawyer is right for you, select other experts such as accountants, therapists and parenting experts, work cost effectively with legal counsel, and ensure you put your children’s best interests first. All of these are areas where a divorce consultant can be very helpful to you.

A divorce consultant is your support during divorce.  The role of a divorce consultant is to help provide you with the insight, education and knowledge of the divorce process, to help you to be forward thinking and to give you ideas to work more effectively with your legal counsel and other members of your divorce team.  After all, there is life after divorce. Your divorce consultant is there to help you to move forward in a smart way so that you can rebuild your life and move forward with focus, hope and confidence.

If you would like an unbiased view of how I help my clients and my outlook on obtaining your smart divorce, please click on the link to view a recent article in The Toronto Star. The Toronto Star

February 1, 2009 at 10:33 pm 1 comment

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