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Remarriage: Avoid the blended family breakdown
Before you say your vows for the second time, get expert tips
for blending your families
Did you know that the divorce rate rises with each subsequent marriage? The divorce rate rises over 60% with a 2nd marriage and skyrockets to over 70% with a third time marriage. One of the contributing factors to the lack of a successful partnership is avoiding the discussion about merging two families together.
Please click on the click to read more about tips and strategies as to how to connect two new families. http://www.more.ca/relationships/family-and-friends/remarriage-avoid-the-blended-family-breakdown/a/29507
I wrote this article for More magazine’s online edition. More magazine is a publication which celebrates women over 40. Men should also feel comfortable reading this article as it offers great tips that apply to both men and women. If you would like to browse through this magazine click on the following link: www.more.ca
But the bottom line is what ever you call it—a step family, blended family, combined family—it’s a newly reconfigured family unit. It takes time to bring this new family together, and it takes effort—just remember to resolve conflict, demonstrate love and find the fun.
Add comment March 8, 2010
Mapping out a prenup
Many people think a prenuptial agreement is for the rich and famous. However, there are many issues that the average person needs to consider and discuss with their new partner. It’s an excellent opportunity to understand his/her financial perspectives and expectations before you get married. Many people are afraid to have this important conversation as they fear it might ruin the relationship. But, if you can’t talk about the important things and expect that things will just “work itself out” when married, it doesn’t always happen that way. Don’t you want an understanding of how each other thinks, and ensure you are on the same page?
- Think of it as marriage/divorce insurance. You want the marriage to work, but if it doesn’t you’ve protected yourself.
- The blended family dilemma. You want your children to support your new marriage; however you want them to feel protected as well.
- What if you die? Without sounding morbid, it is a consideration……how you want your assets to be divided between your new partner and your children.
There are many other obvious considerations. A recent article in Canadian Business answers this very important question:
I’m about to get married for the second time. How do I ensure that my children and my new wife won’t ever have to duke it out over my estate after I’m gone?
1 comment October 30, 2009
