Comments on: The Meaning of Family……….. http://blog.thesmartdivorce.com/2008/02/18/the-meaning-of-family/ Move forward with focus, hope, and confidence. Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:05:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU hourly 1 By: william carr http://blog.thesmartdivorce.com/2008/02/18/the-meaning-of-family/#comment-82 william carr Wed, 23 Apr 2008 15:26:26 +0000 http://thesmartdivorce.wordpress.com/?p=13#comment-82 I have not seen my son William in over three years and my daughter in two. The courts, OCL and the laywers have been very good at creating a even worse suitation and basically have created a "industry" and money generating business. Finaqlly after three years the courts and the OCL finally seen in for what it was really but the time period for any possiblity of reconcilation window has gone now. P.A.S. is simply child abuse and people that do PAS shouldn't be with children, they should be in jail. Creating hate in a child is a crime in Canada and maybe PAS parents should be charge with "hate" crimes. Most of the realistic suggestions from professionals I cannot print. I think it is time to have public shaming of PAS parents. My children are lost children, we do not others. I have not seen my son William in over three years and my daughter in two. The courts, OCL and the laywers have been
very good at creating a even worse suitation and basically have created a “industry” and money generating business.
Finaqlly after three years the courts and the OCL finally seen in for what it was really but the time period for any possiblity of reconcilation window has gone now.
P.A.S. is simply child abuse and people that do PAS shouldn’t be with children, they should be in jail. Creating hate in a child is a crime in Canada and maybe PAS parents should be charge with “hate” crimes. Most of the realistic suggestions from professionals I cannot print.
I think it is time to have public shaming of PAS parents.
My children are lost children, we do not others.

]]> By: Sandy http://blog.thesmartdivorce.com/2008/02/18/the-meaning-of-family/#comment-74 Sandy Wed, 09 Apr 2008 23:39:22 +0000 http://thesmartdivorce.wordpress.com/?p=13#comment-74 My son and I have been estranged for 6 years. We became estranged when I refused to allow him to be used as a spy and a pawn by my ex. I eventually gave up my parental rights to stop the tug of war. I know now that it was stupid but I'd never even heard of PAS until today and it sounded exactly like my situation. After almost 6 years of searching for and hoping for word of my son I finally found him a week ago. He's in YDC and has been for 2 years. I've been trying desperately to get on his visitation list.You have given me hope that I may be able to mend my relationship. At least now I understand what was going on and how mommy's little boy turned into daddy's little "helper". My son and I have been estranged for 6 years.
We became estranged when I refused to allow him to be used as a spy and a pawn by my ex.
I eventually gave up my parental rights to stop the tug of war. I know now that it was stupid but I’d never even heard of PAS until today and it sounded exactly like my situation.
After almost 6 years of searching for and hoping for word of my son I finally found him a week ago. He’s in YDC and has been for 2 years. I’ve been trying desperately to get on his visitation list.You have given me hope that I may be able to mend my relationship.
At least now I understand what was going on and how mommy’s little boy turned into daddy’s little “helper”.

]]> By: The Smart Divorce http://blog.thesmartdivorce.com/2008/02/18/the-meaning-of-family/#comment-34 The Smart Divorce Mon, 03 Mar 2008 05:28:40 +0000 http://thesmartdivorce.wordpress.com/?p=13#comment-34 Dear Tina, This is a very serious problem. As both Robert A. Simon, Ph.D. and I suggest in the article, work with a parenting expert, psychologist, psychiatrist or social worker to help understand the dynamics and guide you to try and re-build the relationship. Deborah Dear Tina,

This is a very serious problem. As both Robert A. Simon, Ph.D. and I suggest in the article, work with a parenting expert, psychologist, psychiatrist or social worker to help understand the dynamics and guide you to try and re-build the relationship.

Deborah

]]> By: Tina http://blog.thesmartdivorce.com/2008/02/18/the-meaning-of-family/#comment-33 Tina Mon, 03 Mar 2008 01:59:43 +0000 http://thesmartdivorce.wordpress.com/?p=13#comment-33 so what happens when your child does not want to see you and the ex is doing nothing to encourage it and just abides by the child's wish, see my comments under Child Support issues. so what happens when your child does not want to see you and the ex is doing nothing to encourage it and just abides by the child’s wish, see my comments under Child Support issues.

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