Parent Alienation Webinars

For those of you who are looking for more information about Parent Alienation (PA/PAS), I would like to bring to your attention these very webinars that have been forwarded to me.  For more information visit  www.paawareness.org

Webinar Series Schedule

PAAO and A Center for Human Potential is excited to bring you the following series of webinars on Parental Alienation. To register, please go to http://www.paawareness.org/webinarsignup062009.asp. The 1st set will start in only a few days!

Webinars are online seminars. Meaning you can hear and see the presenter, and their presentation, sitting at home on your computer. All you need are speakers and an internet connection. You can even ask questions live to the presenter.

Note: Pacific Standard Time is 3 hours earlier.
June 23, 2009
8:00 PM – 9:00 PM EST  Harvey Shapiro – Building Your Case

9:30 PM – 10:30 PM EST  Dr. Ken Lewis – The Role of a Custody Evaluator

June 25, 2009

2 PM – 3 PM EST  Dr. Michael Bone – Dealing with Parental Alienation; Remedies and Treatment

3:30 PM – 4:30 PM EST  Dr. Jayne Major – The Pathology of an Alienator
8 PM – 9 PM EST  Dr. Abe Worenklein – Identifying Alienating Behaviours

9:30 PM – 10:30 PM EST Brian Ludmer – Legal perspectives on Parental Alienation

June 28, 2009

11 AM – 12 PM EST  Dr. Reena Sommer – False Allegations of Sexual Abuse

Add comment June 23, 2009

Watch Deborah as she talks about ……..

Divorce, relationships and more

on Dear Valerie

Relationship expert and veteran journalist Valerie Gibson takes your calls about life, love and the pursuit of self fulfillment. Deborah Moskovitch is this week’s featured guest.  It’s your live mid-day source for instant, honest and realistic advice on any aspect of life, love, sex, marriage, dating and family relationships. Tune in and call in, this Tuesday, June 16, 2009.

Call 416.446.7090 or toll-free 1-800-968-7836 and ask Valerie and Deborah your most intimate questions. Dear Valerie airs LIVE on Rogers TV Ontario-wide on Tuesdays at 2 PM.

Add comment June 15, 2009

Parent alienation: the child’s best interest

……and the gaps in the legal system

The Globe and Mail newspaper reported a surprising ruling by a judge this week. Despite the judge’s condemnation of the mother, calling her a liar and manipulator, it was deemed in the child’s best interest to allow the child to move out of the country with her mother (Blameless father a victim in brainwashing case, May 19, 2009).

The efforts by the father to have a relationship with his daughter were blatantly denied by the mother. Given this information, the judge viewed the daughter’s relationship with the mother and allowing them to move out of the country, in the child’s best interest – although, the judge had “expressed frustration that (the mother) beat the system by flagrantly violating court orders, spiriting (the daughter) out of the country, and keeping every measure possible to keep them apart” (father and daughter.)

The end result of this case demonstrated a very serious problem in the court system – and, that is when it comes to family law, not every family issue is a legal problem. It is a very sad situation when the gaps in the legal system support a parent who deliberately does not abide by rulings and consciously destroy the relationship with the other parent.

It is a travesty when there seems to be no consequence for the parent who defies court orders and deliberately destroys a child’s relationship with the other parent. Parents are their children’s role model. When a parent does not parent effectively, this behavior many not only be modeled by their children but, this pattern of parenting could continue for several generations. Any parent who uses their children as weapons of vengeance certainly does not understand the meaning of “the children’s best interest.” These children are often set on a path of psychological and emotional problems, not provided the opportunity to understand healthy relationships, and frequently prevented from knowing all family members. It is disheartening to learn that the father, despite his best efforts, will most likely not have a relationship with his daughter.

This young girl is set on a path for feelings of anger, resentment and bitterness and a range of psychological issues.

Most parents love their children more than they despise the other parent – the parents that cannot, really need to focus on the need to put their children first.

Add comment May 25, 2009

Space still available for The Smart Divorce Workshop at Centennial College

It’s not too late to register – if you are looking to gain greater insight into the divorce process and save time, money – and your skin……..space is still available for the May 23 workshop.

The Toronto Star profiled the workshop.  For an unbiased look at what I talk about and the benefits so many have received, click on the link to view the article entitled: Taking the doom and gloom out of the divorce process

http://www.thestar.com/SpecialSections/article/541734

Click on the link for more information:

http://db2.centennialcollege.ca/ce/coursedetail.php?CourseCode=CESI-602

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course code: CESI-602
course name: The Smart Divorce
category: Special Interest
description: People often divorce without understanding that it is a process that has both legal and emotional components. Myths and misunderstandings prevail about the effects of divorce on parents and children. This workshop will help those contemplating or experiencing divorce navigate the process. Learn what to expect about all aspects of the divorce process, how to work more effectively with a lawyer and other professionals, and strategies and tips to reduce the complexity and costs. Become better prepared for your divorce, with focus and confidence, while saving time and money.
3 hours
web site: http://www.centennialcollege.ca/fun
certificate:
register online: https://secure.centennialcollege.ca/webreg

Add comment May 4, 2009

After divorce: Happier, stronger you

Too often, people identify themselves with who they were when they were married, rather than who they’ve become (or would like to become) postdivorce.

Now is the time to evaluate what you would like your life to like, and to develop strategies to get there. If you were the primary caregiver and stayed at home with your children during your marriage, perhaps you need to go to work but haven’t been in the workforce for a number of years. You could consider going to a vocational coach to help you make the transition. Perhaps you can afford to continue not working, but will this still be fulfilling? You can volunteer or pursue other interests. After all, your children may no longer be with you every day or weekend. The challenge is to rebuild your life to achieve a new kind of happiness. You just have to want to change and believe that it can be accomplished.

Visualize your life being different, and live your life as you envision it. Don’t wait to do the things that you promise yourself you will do when you feel better. Start doing those things now, and happiness will follow. If you wait until you are happier to do those things, you will be waiting a long time.

Please click on the click to read more about tips and strategies as to how to develop your postdivorce identity.

http://www.more.ca/relationships/single-life/after-divorce-happier-stronger-you/a/21185

I wrote this article for More magazine’s online edition. More magazine is a publication which celebrates women over 40.  Men should also feel comfortable reading this article as it offers great insight into moving on postdivorce; tips that apply to both men and women.

I don’t want to sugarcoat things. There are times when life postdivorce is difficult, sad, and lonely. You might still be experiencing a sense of loss, a setback in terms of self-esteem, or shame at no longer being part of a couple. But there are many single people living very rewarding lives. Again, try to reframe the situation and reflect on the life you actually had when you were married. I have heard people say that although they may have been blindsided by their divorce, when they really think about their marriage they realize that they were not fulfilled. If you are having difficulty postdivorce, this is when you really need to work hard to regain a positive outlook and work toward self-acceptance. Talking to a therapist, having a strong support network, or just asking yourself many questions about your life’s goals can lead you to an evaluation of where you are headed and how to get there.

Add comment May 4, 2009

Nurturing parent/child bonds

The issue of parent alienation has been front and center in the media recently, and deserves the attention. It’s the children who live out the divorce and deal with the toxic reality of conflict.

Justice Harvey Brownstone, a family court judge in Toronto, wrote an insightful essay which appears in The Globe and Mail, on what he described as “a prevalent concern in high-conflict custody litigation.” The link to this article, which every parent should read, is below.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/LAC.20090425.COESSAY25ART1958/TPStory/?query=harvey+brownstone

Justice Brownstone raises significant issues which parents need to consider. However, it is important for parents to look at their own behavior and consider how this might be affecting the relationship with their children.

My response to this serious issue of parent/child relationships appears in today’s Globe and Mail – letters to the editor.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/LAC.20090428.COLETTS28ART1951-6/TPStory/?query=deborah+moskovitch


If you are wondering whether or not my comments ring true, read on for a real life example of someone who paid the price dearly, and suffered significant damage as a result of parent alienation.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/LAC.20090429.LETTERS29ART2018-6/TPStory/?query=deborah+moskovitch

It’s a parent’s responsibility to give their children the best life possible -this means being mature enough to

put your feelings aside

and do what is in the best interests of your children.

Add comment April 28, 2009

10 frequently asked divorce questions

 

The divorce process is often fraught with many questions. How do you know it’s the right thing to do? Do you stay together for the sake of the kids? What if I don’t trust my spouse any more and so on.

Many of these questions are answered in an article appearing in Homemakers magazine. Please click on the link to have your questions answered.

http://www.homemakers.com/Life&Times/relationships/10-frequently-asked-divorce-questions-n239370p1.html

 

 

Being smart about divorce means asking the questions and doing the research to answer them.

Add comment April 17, 2009

Hear Deborah discuss how to have The Smart Divorce

What makes a smart divorce and what do you need to do to get there? Listen to this interview on Thatchannel.com; an internet television station.

 

I was recently interviewed on The Liquid Lunch and I discuss my motivations for writing The Smart Divorce, my perspectives on smart parenting and how to move on to create a better life postdivorce.

 

Click on the link to hear me speak.

http://video.google.ca/videoplay?docid=-1083777693813957033

Add comment April 15, 2009

Home alone: the post-divorce social scene

 All too often I hear people talk about having nothing to do on the weekend. While it can seem lonely at times, there are things you can do to help make new friends, or find ways to enjoy the weekend.

 

Please click the link to read more about tips and strategies as to how to accomplish a post-divorce social life.

http://www.more.ca/relationships/single-life/home-alone-the-post-divorce-social-scene/a/20793

I wrote this article for More magazine’s online edition. More magazine is a publication which celebrates women over 40. Men should also feel comfortable reading this article as it offers great insight into moving on postdivorce; tips that apply to both men and women. If you would like to browse through this magazine click on the following link: www.more.ca

 

It doesn’t have to be lonely, get out there and enjoy yourself.

Have a fabulous weekend and a great week!

Add comment April 1, 2009

Tug of War – A judge speaks out about divorce in the courtroom

Tug of War
A Judge’s Verdict on Separation, Custody Battles, and the Bitter Realities of Family Court

Mr. Justice Harvey Brownstone

 

I just finished reading the book Tug of War and highly recommend it as required reading for anyone that is contemplating litigation for their family law disputes. When I conducted my interviews for The Smart Divorce, there wasn’t one judge who would make his/her views public. Justice Brownstone has gone out on a limb to communicate his views to the public. It is well written and provides a real perspective of what goes on in court – and is endorsed by his colleagues, which speaks volumes in terms of the credibility and accuracy of information.

Tug of War is the first book of its kind. Written by a sitting family court judge in layman’s language, it demystifies complex family law concepts and procedures, clearly explains how family court works, and gives parents essential alternatives to resolve their own custody battles and keep their kids out of the often damaging court system.

Breakup rates in North America are skyrocketing. Recent statistics say 45% of marriages end in divorce, and at the centre are countless children, thrust by their families into a complex and seemingly impermeable family court system. Tug of War explains the role of lawyers and judges in the family justice system, and examines the parents’ own responsibilities to ensure that post-separation conflicts are resolved with minimal damage to the children stuck in the middle of parental disputes. Justice Harvey Brownstone explores themes that apply to all families and parents in conflict. He draws on his fourteen years sitting on the family court bench to provide clear case examples with inclusive and accessible language.

Tug of War describes alternatives to litigation and exposes the myth that parents can represent themselves without a lawyer in family court. Justice Brownstone discloses the inner struggles of parents, judges, and lawyers in the maelstrom of marital conflict.

This book is a must-read for couples involved in or contemplating separation, family law judges, lawyers, mediators, parenting coaches, psychologists, family counselors, social workers, students and professors of family law at law schools. It is endorsed by judges currently sitting in Ontario and New York State.

*100% of author royalties from this book will be donated to Children’s Wish Foundation.

This book is available where ever books are sold, amazon.com and amazon.ca and many other online book seller sites.

1 comment March 3, 2009

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